I had a great great morning hanging out and talking/ranting about queerness and feminism and femme identity/femininity and filming n’ stuff and I really like my friends because they’re rad as fuck and yeah! And now to do homework and clean a bit before Kevin shows up — I’mma make him special ramen and we’re gonna snuggle and watch my old VHS copy of Totoro because the DVD version I rented last weekend had a stupid dub. I’M JUST REALLY EXCITED AND HAPPY RIGHT NOW OKAY!!
uh yeah i’m a pretty big history buff *picks up rock* this has probably been here for a long time. *touches ground* old people once stood on this ground. maybe even dinosaurs
Why is cheating such an end all be all question on morality? Like- no, it isn’t super cool. But it was years ago. That person wouldn’t judge you for cheating on a test three years ago- so why this? I’m glad you’re happy now.
Honestly, it isn’t your job to be the best person in the world. People suck sometimes, we humans fuck up. I don’t agree with cheating but it isn’t anyone’s place to judge you. Rock on for no regrets
Hey, thanks a lot y’all. You write good words.
Oh, and in other news, my friend Varsha is gonna be interviewing and filming me tomorrow morning talking about what it’s like to be young + queer and about how fashion helps to construct/project identity. I’m pretty excited.
Anonymous asked: You cheated on your last boyfriend?!? I just lost a lot of respect for you.
Yeah, I did. I’m not proud of it, but I also honestly don’t regret it at all. I think it’s important to note, though, that the relationship with that boyfriend was basically completely dead emotionally at that point (and had been for months) and was just sort of lingering around because neither of us knew how to break up with the person we’d been dating since we were fourteen. Plus, Kevin and I only crossed the physical line the one time, and I then immediately initiated a break-up with high school dude and was single two days later. So yeah. I’m not always the best person and I’m not afraid to admit it, but I do think context is important here. Ugh, I don’t know why I’m justifying myself to an Anon. But yeah, there you have it. Make of it what you will. Blah.